Hi Parents!

Let’s take a moment to reflect. Have you ever felt like parenting is a rollercoaster of joy, exhaustion, second-guessing, and love all rolled into one? If so, you're not alone! Parenting is a tough gig, and we often put a ton of pressure on ourselves to "get it right." But what if the secret to feeling good about how we parent isn’t about being perfect—but about feeling empowered?

So, what does it even mean to be an empowered parent? Let’s unpack it together.

1.You Trust Yourself

Being an empowered parent doesn’t mean you have all the answers—it means you trust that you’re capable of figuring things out. Yes, Google is great, but deep down, you know your child better than anyone else. Trusting your instincts doesn’t mean ignoring advice; it means balancing what you learn with what feels right for you and your family.

2.You Know It’s Okay to Not Know Everything

Here’s the thing: empowered parents embrace that they are also learners. Every day your child grows, you grow as a parent. You might not always know the best way to respond to a tantrum or handle a tough question—and that’s okay. Being empowered is about showing up, learning, and being willing to try again…and again…and again!

 3.You Advocate for Your Child AND Yourself

Empowered parents understand that their needs matter, too. Taking care of your mental health, asking for help, or even carving out 10 minutes to sip your coffee while it’s hot is a form of empowerment. You’re teaching your child that self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential.

 4.You Embrace Mistakes (Yours and Theirs)

Spoiler alert: you’re not supposed to have it all together. Empowered parenting is about seeing mistakes as opportunities. When you lose your cool, because we all do at times, you repair. When your child messes up, you teach them how to grow. This creates a safe environment where everyone learns resilience and grace.

 5.You See Your Role as a Leader, Not a Boss

Empowerment comes from knowing that your role isn’t to control every outcome—it’s to guide, support, and love your child through their highs and lows. Envision what type of boss you would really appreciate having.  I am guessing it is not one that yells, threatens and manipulates.  You don’t want that kind of environment for your kids either.  When you focus on connection, collaboration and calmness over control, you demonstrate to your kids essential leadership skills and avoid the dreaded power struggle.

 6.You Build Your Village

Lastly, empowered parenting isn’t a solo journey. It’s about finding your support system—whether it’s a partner, family, friends, or fellow parents who just get it. When you lean on your village, you teach your kids the importance of community and interdependence.

Parenting with Confidence and Grace

Being an empowered parent doesn’t mean you never doubt yourself or that every day is smooth sailing. It means showing up authentically, learning from the messy moments, and trusting that you’re enough.

So, here’s your reminder: most days you’re doing better than you think. 

1. Take a deep breath,
2. Celebrate the little wins,
3. Embrace growth and change and remember
4. Your love and presence are the greatest gifts you can give your child.

What’s one thing that makes you feel like an empowered parent?

Please share your comments and help The Village Grow!